Know Your Rights: What a Debt Collector Can and Cannot Do
A collector cannot bully you. Federal law sets clear rules, and you can push back for free using the CFPB.

Why is a debt collector contacting me?
A debt collector may reach out because a creditor believes you are past due on a debt you owe. That is the most common reason for the calls or letters.
Ignoring a collector is unlikely to make them stop. If you believe you do not owe the debt, the CFPB says you should tell the collector directly.
The good news: you have real rights under federal law, and using them does not cost a penny.
Can I ask a collector to prove I owe the debt?
Yes. If you do not owe the debt, or you just want proof, you can ask for it. This is called a validation notice, and it is one of your rights.
The CFPB's Debt Collection Rule, which took effect on November 30, 2021, clarifies what information a collector must give you and how they can contact you.
The CFPB offers free sample letters and how-to guides to reply to a collector and ask for proof of the debt.
What can a collector NOT do to me?
The Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA) says a debt collector cannot use unfair or harassing practices to collect a debt.
You have the right to tell a collector to stop contacting you. And only in rare cases can collectors take Social Security or VA benefits.
If a collector is calling non-stop or crossing the line, that behavior may break the law. You do not have to just take it.
How do I push back, for free?
Start at the CFPB's debt collection pages. They explain your rights in plain language and give step-by-step guides on how to reply, how to negotiate a settlement, and what to do if you are sued.
If you already contacted the company and still have a problem, you can submit a complaint to the CFPB. They forward it to the company and work to get you a response, generally within 15 days.
One caution: a debt settlement company is not the same as these free tools. Be careful before paying anyone. No service can guarantee it will erase or greatly reduce your debt on a set timeline. The CFPB path is free.
Frequently asked questions
- Can I make a collector stop calling me?
- Yes. You have the right to tell a debt collector to stop contacting you. The CFPB provides free guidance and sample letters to help you do this in writing.
- What if I do not think I owe the debt?
- Tell the collector. You can ask for proof of the debt, called a validation notice. The CFPB has free sample letters you can use to request it.
- Should I use a debt settlement company?
- Be careful. A settlement company is not the same as the free CFPB tools, and no service can guarantee it will erase or greatly reduce your debt on a set timeline. Compare your options before paying anyone.
- Does filing a CFPB complaint cost money?
- No. Submitting a complaint to the CFPB is free. They forward it to the company and work to get you a response, generally within 15 days.
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